Is it inappropriate to give a Holiday gift to my friend's boyfriend
l am wrapping gifts early this year and my five close friends and l
exchange small gifts each year in school. The five of us eat lunch
everyday together but this year one friend has a boyfriend that eats lunch
with us as well but we do not talk to him too much. l am giving my five
friends memo boards that l bought and holiday tissues and a candy cane
pencil in a small bag. l have an extra pack of tissues, small bag, and
candy cane pencil that l can give to the boyfriend. My other friends do not plan to include him in any of it but l feel weird exchanging in front of him and not including him but l also feel weird giving him a gift that may be taken the wrong way. The pack of tissues and pencil are nothing big but just something extra that l have. Is it in appropriate to give it to him? (girls, would you think that if this was your boyfriend and your friend gave him something- would that not be something to do?) Thank you so much to all who answer!
Ask his girlfriend first and if she says okay, then by all
means, give him the gift.
You know your friend (like if she is the jealous type or not)
so I would think about how you think she would respond. Personally if it
were me, it wouldn't bother me and I would take it as you trying to
include him and not anything else.
Yes, it is thoughtful that you would include him, but I would
say it would be better to make the gift from all the girls rather than
just you as it has the potential of being taken the wrong way if it is
just you giving a gift to someone else is boyfriend.
I see absolutely nothing wrong with given a token gift to an
acquaintance during a group gift giving event. You are a considerate
person to even entertain this thought. Go ahead and do it. With the
holiday spirit in mind, only a fool would find fault with this kind
gesture.
But, high school girls can sometimes be insecure, so run it by your friend first and don't give a second thought to what others think.
doon't ask us, ask your friend.
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